"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she is as hard as a ROCK....comment, tips, helps for me?

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briefly speaking, she gave me these lines:
1. ....to be honest, i probably will not reject you; but for now, it is not the right timing...too rush...
2. ....isn't it ok for us to be friends for now? why you have to break this situation? now after telling me what your hidden feelings toward me, you think we can still be as easy going as before?
3. ....said you will be my friend...but i just know it in fact you will cut me off...
4. ...you gave me lots of pressure...and i felt selfish myself if only i just want to be friends...
5. ...why can't give both of us more time to get to know each other better...?

yup, that is all she said to me....typical "LJBF" with some "false messege" i guess

after she gave me those sht in the weekend we went out again (under "friends" term of course) - and later the weeks pretty much the same.

--i think she is either no interested in me, or like she said, "not the right timing dude "
--next her? or make this a real longern run (btw, to me she is not "another woman hooked in bar or somewhere"...i hate to say that but i'm kinda fall in...which is not so good for me now, but....)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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These are the words of a woman with VERY, VERY low interest - next!
 
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sad samurai said:
briefly speaking, she gave me these lines:
1. ....to be honest, i probably will not reject you; but for now, it is not the right timing...too rush...
2. ....isn't it ok for us to be friends for now? why you have to break this situation? now after telling me what your hidden feelings toward me, you think we can still be as easy going as before?
3. ....said you will be my friend...but i just know it in fact you will cut me off...
4. ...you gave me lots of pressure...and i felt selfish myself if only i just want to be friends...
5. ...why can't give both of us more time to get to know each other better...?

yup, that is all she said to me....typical "LJBF" with some "false messege" i guess

after she gave me those sht in the weekend we went out again (under "friends" term of course) - and later the weeks pretty much the same.

--i think she is either no interested in me, or like she said, "not the right timing dude "
--next her? or make this a real longern run (btw, to me she is not "another woman hooked in bar or somewhere"...i hate to say that but i'm kinda fall in...which is not so good for me now, but....)
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Next her until she chases after you...which I doubt she will judging from this.
 
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Put her way way way way way way back on the back burner which means to cut her off completely while you go date other chicks in the meantime.

If she comes back and starts saying what you want to hear and you are interested in her words and her at that time then great.

If not also great because you will of been spending your time with other women not wiling away your precious time gripped by oneitis.

Good luck soldier.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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from the jist of the OP, you had your feelings out on your sleeve. no mystery. no excitment.

her words arent hidden or even being misconstured. she is out right telling you LJBF.

advice. dont be her emotional tampon and accept this status by going out as friends. all you will be doing is stroking her ego.
 
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