"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she is as hard as a ROCK....comment, tips, helps for me?

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briefly speaking, she gave me these lines:
1. ....to be honest, i probably will not reject you; but for now, it is not the right timing...too rush...
2. ....isn't it ok for us to be friends for now? why you have to break this situation? now after telling me what your hidden feelings toward me, you think we can still be as easy going as before?
3. ....said you will be my friend...but i just know it in fact you will cut me off...
4. ...you gave me lots of pressure...and i felt selfish myself if only i just want to be friends...
5. ...why can't give both of us more time to get to know each other better...?

yup, that is all she said to me....typical "LJBF" with some "false messege" i guess

after she gave me those sht in the weekend we went out again (under "friends" term of course) - and later the weeks pretty much the same.

--i think she is either no interested in me, or like she said, "not the right timing dude "
--next her? or make this a real longern run (btw, to me she is not "another woman hooked in bar or somewhere"...i hate to say that but i'm kinda fall in...which is not so good for me now, but....)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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These are the words of a woman with VERY, VERY low interest - next!
 
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sad samurai said:
briefly speaking, she gave me these lines:
1. ....to be honest, i probably will not reject you; but for now, it is not the right timing...too rush...
2. ....isn't it ok for us to be friends for now? why you have to break this situation? now after telling me what your hidden feelings toward me, you think we can still be as easy going as before?
3. ....said you will be my friend...but i just know it in fact you will cut me off...
4. ...you gave me lots of pressure...and i felt selfish myself if only i just want to be friends...
5. ...why can't give both of us more time to get to know each other better...?

yup, that is all she said to me....typical "LJBF" with some "false messege" i guess

after she gave me those sht in the weekend we went out again (under "friends" term of course) - and later the weeks pretty much the same.

--i think she is either no interested in me, or like she said, "not the right timing dude "
--next her? or make this a real longern run (btw, to me she is not "another woman hooked in bar or somewhere"...i hate to say that but i'm kinda fall in...which is not so good for me now, but....)
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Next her until she chases after you...which I doubt she will judging from this.
 
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Put her way way way way way way back on the back burner which means to cut her off completely while you go date other chicks in the meantime.

If she comes back and starts saying what you want to hear and you are interested in her words and her at that time then great.

If not also great because you will of been spending your time with other women not wiling away your precious time gripped by oneitis.

Good luck soldier.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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from the jist of the OP, you had your feelings out on your sleeve. no mystery. no excitment.

her words arent hidden or even being misconstured. she is out right telling you LJBF.

advice. dont be her emotional tampon and accept this status by going out as friends. all you will be doing is stroking her ego.
 
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