A colleague from work invited me to her place to smoke some pot together :cheer: . My experience with women is limited and I am wondering is there a small possibility that she has in mind only smoking together and not sex. At the office i am always making jokes with her and she has a good impression about me. She is the outgoing type of a girl , she goes to a lot of parties, clubs ... places that i rarely go to. We don't have a lot of things in common but i can make her laugh and she says we should smoke and laugh together. What do you think about this ? I know it sounds a little bit silly but i need an outside opinion on this.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She invited me to her place to smoke
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Don Juan
I was in a similar situation a couple months back, but regret tell you I have no firsthand advice. I quit the pipe a while back. Good luck though.
Why is there's so many post asking "should I do something with a girl?". If you want to bang her...then your obviously not going to if you're sitting at home by yourself. If you just want to smoke pot then go over and smoke pot...or stay home and smoke pot. I would say go for it 
Themanthatcan
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Eh. Sounds like a 2nd class kinda girl. Not my type. I'd turn her down.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.