A colleague from work invited me to her place to smoke some pot together :cheer: . My experience with women is limited and I am wondering is there a small possibility that she has in mind only smoking together and not sex. At the office i am always making jokes with her and she has a good impression about me. She is the outgoing type of a girl , she goes to a lot of parties, clubs ... places that i rarely go to. We don't have a lot of things in common but i can make her laugh and she says we should smoke and laugh together. What do you think about this ? I know it sounds a little bit silly but i need an outside opinion on this.
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She invited me to her place to smoke
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Don Juan
I was in a similar situation a couple months back, but regret tell you I have no firsthand advice. I quit the pipe a while back. Good luck though.
Why is there's so many post asking "should I do something with a girl?". If you want to bang her...then your obviously not going to if you're sitting at home by yourself. If you just want to smoke pot then go over and smoke pot...or stay home and smoke pot. I would say go for it 
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
Eh. Sounds like a 2nd class kinda girl. Not my type. I'd turn her down.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.