A colleague from work invited me to her place to smoke some pot together :cheer: . My experience with women is limited and I am wondering is there a small possibility that she has in mind only smoking together and not sex. At the office i am always making jokes with her and she has a good impression about me. She is the outgoing type of a girl , she goes to a lot of parties, clubs ... places that i rarely go to. We don't have a lot of things in common but i can make her laugh and she says we should smoke and laugh together. What do you think about this ? I know it sounds a little bit silly but i need an outside opinion on this.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She invited me to her place to smoke
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Don Juan
I was in a similar situation a couple months back, but regret tell you I have no firsthand advice. I quit the pipe a while back. Good luck though.
Why is there's so many post asking "should I do something with a girl?". If you want to bang her...then your obviously not going to if you're sitting at home by yourself. If you just want to smoke pot then go over and smoke pot...or stay home and smoke pot. I would say go for it 
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
Eh. Sounds like a 2nd class kinda girl. Not my type. I'd turn her down.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.