she ignores me in presence but texts a lot

[tilger]

So I met this girl 2 months ago, we hang out a lot but just as friends. the issue is she texts me a lot but when she is with me and other people she ignores me or just pay way more attention to the others over me, even though she is the one who texting me to come and knows me way more than the other people. wierd. because she is really outgoing and not shy at all. I dont know what she thinks, she also might know that i like her because the way i act with her but dont want to make the move because i might move soon, just want to know whats on her head, its soo confusing.

 

[Tictac]

If you don't know what you think or what you want to do, there's not much anyone can do to help you.

 

[dustmuffin]

So I met this girl 2 months ago, we hang out a lot but just as friends. the issue is she texts me a lot but when she is with me and other people she ignores me or just pay way more attention to the others over me, even though she is the one who texting me to come and knows me way more than the other people. wierd. because she is really outgoing and not shy at all. I dont know what she thinks, she also might know that i like her because the way i act with her but dont want to make the move because i might move soon, just want to know whats on her head, its soo confusing.

How old are you? You want a friend? Stay with her. Want more? Move on.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Maybe you text too much and she wants attention from other people when out.

 

[tilger]

i never text her, she is the one who initiates most of the time. i just want to know if she is doing it coz she likes me or something else

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Yeah, she initiates but you talk with her a lot over text. So then she has nothing to talk about with you. When I was in HS I had a relationship like this with a nerdy girl, we would talk about lot of things, but then she would spend more time with other people when out. It's only natural, two people can only spend so much time together.
Does she likes you? Who knows. The question is : do you like her? if yes scalate, if not enjoy your time together as friends.

 

[amoka]

i never text her, she is the one who initiates most of the time. i just want to know if she is doing it coz she likes me or something else

At 29, you should know if a woman likes you to be more than just a friend.

 

[MOTU]

A woman with high interest generally won't confuse you. She will make her interest clear.

I suggest you read anti dumps machine in the dj Bible.

 

[nismo-4]

Dump her ass unless you just want to be her iOrbiter. Text her you started seeing someone and move on.

/thread

 

[Prime_Beef]

Stop texting so much. This is a young man's problem. Text her back you're going to go get a beer, come on over. (Unless she don't drink) if she ever takes you up on the offer you get that beer in a nice, safe but edgy place, with a pool table or some such. This is a place where she's not likely to know people. Sort it out real quick.
If she wants to just be friends, you say yeah, I was thinking the same. .move on.

 

[Kailex]

i never text her, she is the one who initiates most of the time. i just want to know if she is doing it coz she likes me or something else

The correct answer is "Something else".

Next time she initiates, don't respond. And then next time she initiates, don't respond. Keep repeating this behavior until she no longer texts.

 

[sodbuster]

If you want to, make your move. Kiss her and find out..... if she stops you, stop wasting all your valuable time texting her. You have weights to lift, books to read, all kinds of other things that IMPROVE your life. If she isn't adding to it, she's subtracting from it