That's exactly what I'm gonna do...I'm gonna ask her to get a quick bite with me after class. She is a senior here and I have no clue who her boyfriend is, but I have never seen her with any guy like that here so I figure its some dude who graduated last year. And I'm sure I could kick the guy's ass if it came to that, but I like to think positive anyways. The way she has been eyeing me it shouldn't be long before he's her ex-boyfriend :woo:DJDamage said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She has a boyfriend!!! WTF??
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You know what's even more funny? Having a girl tell you that she's single, have sex twice with her, then find out later through a guy's comment on myspace that she really did have a b/f and she covered up relational status, but gave so many confusing signals on why she couldn't do a f-buddy deal (she didn't want to get caught when her Navy b/f came back from port).
So... at least you found out before she could cheat on him with you if you're a moral man and that matters to you.
So... at least you found out before she could cheat on him with you if you're a moral man and that matters to you.
resilient said:
More funny:
Having the ex change her myspace status to "in a relationship" then 3 days later after 2 weeks of no talking have her txt you asking for sex after she claims to have had a vivid sex dream with you the night before. Is she really in a relationship? Who knows? I'm not giving the satisfaction she wants from me asking. Either way I fvcked her silly and if there's another dude I'm happy I could screw her up for him as she reattaches mentally to me and continues to withhold sex from him.