"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She has a boyfriend!!! WTF??

Zero Hero

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DJDamage said:
You should play it cool. Don't start acting like a geek. She told you she has a boyfriend flat out. So you flat out don't ask her for a number right away but you play it cool for a bit and she will defintley know that the game is on. This is what seduction is all about. This is how you should say it after you finish classes:

" hey I am going to get something to eat at a (Bar - Insert name here) down the street from here, you are welcome to join me".

If she says yes then its game on. You order some nachos some drinks, have a few jokes and laughs, kino her, play a game of pool or darts, and if everything goes well you either go for it and kiss her or just ask her for her number.
That's exactly what I'm gonna do...I'm gonna ask her to get a quick bite with me after class. She is a senior here and I have no clue who her boyfriend is, but I have never seen her with any guy like that here so I figure its some dude who graduated last year. And I'm sure I could kick the guy's ass if it came to that, but I like to think positive anyways. The way she has been eyeing me it shouldn't be long before he's her ex-boyfriend :woo:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You know what's even more funny? Having a girl tell you that she's single, have sex twice with her, then find out later through a guy's comment on myspace that she really did have a b/f and she covered up relational status, but gave so many confusing signals on why she couldn't do a f-buddy deal (she didn't want to get caught when her Navy b/f came back from port).

So... at least you found out before she could cheat on him with you if you're a moral man and that matters to you.
 

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Zero Hero said:
This is so bizarre.
This is not bizarre. This is common b1tch woman behavior.

Just chalk her up to being another waste of time and flesh.
 

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resilient said:
You know what's even more funny? Having a girl tell you that she's single, have sex twice with her,

More funny:

Having the ex change her myspace status to "in a relationship" then 3 days later after 2 weeks of no talking have her txt you asking for sex after she claims to have had a vivid sex dream with you the night before. Is she really in a relationship? Who knows? I'm not giving the satisfaction she wants from me asking. Either way I fvcked her silly and if there's another dude I'm happy I could screw her up for him as she reattaches mentally to me and continues to withhold sex from him.
 
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