I am a very attractive guy. I'm 16 years old and very confident due to the amount of girls that say I'm attractive. When I meet a girl in person I can talk about anything. There is this girl who looks at me everyday. Even when she's with her boyfriend when I was by see stares at me. She likes all my pictures on Instagram and she likes the pictures I post without a shirt on. How can I test to see if she likes me? And also we have never talked before.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She has a boyfriend. But I think she wants me...
- Thread starter Djprep
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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If women make you feel confident, that's not real confidence my friend.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The first thing you do is actually go talk to her.Djprep said:
But before you do that, think carefully on what you might say.
I'm going to assume that you're still in school, so like it or not, your reputation is fairly important. Depending on the people around you, they might consider chasing another guy's girl as a bad move and could turn you into a social outcast.
Have any of your friends noticed this girl, are they giving you 'advice'?
Reputation is hard to fix once you've busted it.
...and your face (OP) might be hard to fix when her boyfriend has busted it.Cremasta said:
Realise that at your time of life now you will never be surrounded by so many unattached female choices as you are now, is it really worth it?