I am a very attractive guy. I'm 16 years old and very confident due to the amount of girls that say I'm attractive. When I meet a girl in person I can talk about anything. There is this girl who looks at me everyday. Even when she's with her boyfriend when I was by see stares at me. She likes all my pictures on Instagram and she likes the pictures I post without a shirt on. How can I test to see if she likes me? And also we have never talked before.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She has a boyfriend. But I think she wants me...
- Thread starter Djprep
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Master Don Juan
If women make you feel confident, that's not real confidence my friend.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The first thing you do is actually go talk to her.Djprep said:
But before you do that, think carefully on what you might say.
I'm going to assume that you're still in school, so like it or not, your reputation is fairly important. Depending on the people around you, they might consider chasing another guy's girl as a bad move and could turn you into a social outcast.
Have any of your friends noticed this girl, are they giving you 'advice'?
Reputation is hard to fix once you've busted it.
...and your face (OP) might be hard to fix when her boyfriend has busted it.Cremasta said:
Realise that at your time of life now you will never be surrounded by so many unattached female choices as you are now, is it really worth it?