"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

she has a bf..

W

Wizkid

New Member
Joined
Mar 1, 2009
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
Location
South Dakota
okay, I did see the other topic in this forum about girls having boyfriends, and I have a smiliar issue..
I just want to see what you guys think..

i first met her at youth group one night and started talking and she was really easy to get along with and quite funny. She seemed very friendly but not quite flirty at the time. Yesterday, the youth group went on a ski trip, and I found out that she was dating a guy who seemed more like a brother (they seemed to have no chemistry). Between boarding and skiing she seemed to have turned from friendliness to flirting. I would pick on her.. and she would give me a nudge or an elbow, etc. Towards the end of the day she (age 19) was hanging out with me (15) and my friends (19,18,18, and 16), and paid no attention to her boyfriend and even admitting that we were more fun than him and she didn't care.. it "comes with the territory".. on the bus ride back she sat in the back with us for a while and she was givin me hugs and watching a movie with us

i don't know if i am viewing signs of friendship as flirting or if she is flirting and has no respect for her bf or etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

A

Analyzeit

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 12, 2009
Messages
342
Reaction score
5
Location
Auckland, New Zeland
If there was one thing i learnt from one thread on this forum that i made about it, is that:

NO if he is a mate
NO if you initiate flirting

YES if she thinks your better then her bf
YES but only if she gonna dump him (unless you want a OST)
YES if she just keeps coming at you!

simple really
 
W

Wizkid

New Member
Joined
Mar 1, 2009
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
Location
South Dakota
Ok thanks for the advice.. It is probably best if she's just a friend.
The ? I had was what would cause a girl to flirt around on her bf and right in front of him
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

B

BBJ1083

New Member
Joined
Mar 2, 2009
Messages
9
Reaction score
1
she is too young to know what BF means.

Be a man, be big and act like you are her BF and she will treat you like you are her BF.

Trust me on this and thank me on this.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top