"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she has a bf..

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okay, I did see the other topic in this forum about girls having boyfriends, and I have a smiliar issue..
I just want to see what you guys think..

i first met her at youth group one night and started talking and she was really easy to get along with and quite funny. She seemed very friendly but not quite flirty at the time. Yesterday, the youth group went on a ski trip, and I found out that she was dating a guy who seemed more like a brother (they seemed to have no chemistry). Between boarding and skiing she seemed to have turned from friendliness to flirting. I would pick on her.. and she would give me a nudge or an elbow, etc. Towards the end of the day she (age 19) was hanging out with me (15) and my friends (19,18,18, and 16), and paid no attention to her boyfriend and even admitting that we were more fun than him and she didn't care.. it "comes with the territory".. on the bus ride back she sat in the back with us for a while and she was givin me hugs and watching a movie with us

i don't know if i am viewing signs of friendship as flirting or if she is flirting and has no respect for her bf or etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If there was one thing i learnt from one thread on this forum that i made about it, is that:

NO if he is a mate
NO if you initiate flirting

YES if she thinks your better then her bf
YES but only if she gonna dump him (unless you want a OST)
YES if she just keeps coming at you!

simple really
 
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Ok thanks for the advice.. It is probably best if she's just a friend.
The ? I had was what would cause a girl to flirt around on her bf and right in front of him
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she is too young to know what BF means.

Be a man, be big and act like you are her BF and she will treat you like you are her BF.

Trust me on this and thank me on this.
 
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