"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she has a bf..

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okay, I did see the other topic in this forum about girls having boyfriends, and I have a smiliar issue..
I just want to see what you guys think..

i first met her at youth group one night and started talking and she was really easy to get along with and quite funny. She seemed very friendly but not quite flirty at the time. Yesterday, the youth group went on a ski trip, and I found out that she was dating a guy who seemed more like a brother (they seemed to have no chemistry). Between boarding and skiing she seemed to have turned from friendliness to flirting. I would pick on her.. and she would give me a nudge or an elbow, etc. Towards the end of the day she (age 19) was hanging out with me (15) and my friends (19,18,18, and 16), and paid no attention to her boyfriend and even admitting that we were more fun than him and she didn't care.. it "comes with the territory".. on the bus ride back she sat in the back with us for a while and she was givin me hugs and watching a movie with us

i don't know if i am viewing signs of friendship as flirting or if she is flirting and has no respect for her bf or etc.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If there was one thing i learnt from one thread on this forum that i made about it, is that:

NO if he is a mate
NO if you initiate flirting

YES if she thinks your better then her bf
YES but only if she gonna dump him (unless you want a OST)
YES if she just keeps coming at you!

simple really
 
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Ok thanks for the advice.. It is probably best if she's just a friend.
The ? I had was what would cause a girl to flirt around on her bf and right in front of him
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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she is too young to know what BF means.

Be a man, be big and act like you are her BF and she will treat you like you are her BF.

Trust me on this and thank me on this.
 
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