"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SHE GONE...Realize I dont need her!

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my gf went to Germany from the 13th to 22nd of August.

last time I talked to her was about 2 am on Friday night..the 12th.


i told her to call me between the 17th and 19th..because I didnt want to carry my phone on my at all times waiting.

anyways..I realize a few things.

1. I dont need her to have my life..
2. I do miss her, I miss her company and companionship and her voice.

but more important I dont need her...I want her...I want her alot actually....but this want isnt a need. I dont need her to do anything for me..well that was a pretty waste of a story....but guys U DONT NEED HER!


I cant wait till monday night...I hope she isnt on her period!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HaHaHa right now shes drinking lots of German beer and having anal with German Ninjas.

Ninja out
 
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LoL atleast you got a sence of humour. You are in my cool books. Thats good anyway that you realize you don't NEED her.

Ninja out
 
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lol..thanks..I def dont need haha WANT her shytting on my nice sheets :) she already gives them a good waterfall when im done :)

sarge on NINJA! :woo:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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