"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She gives me her number

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Milfhunter95

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One night, this chick I was talking to invited me to the bar. When I got there, she was with two new friends. One was lesbian, the other straight. I saw that the straight one kept eyeing me, so I started talking to her. The main girl I was there with didn't like this too much and kept pulling me back and kissing up on me. (She also got pissed when this other girl we knew at the bar insisted on buying me a drink lol)

As the night went by, I kept talking to the new girl I just met (but I wasn't planning on getting with her or any of that, just talking). Then, we were getting ready to leave, she decided she "had to use the restroom" so the rest of us leave and get into our cars. As I'm pulling out of the lot, she was standing outside the bar, so I open my window and tell her it was nice to meet her and to have a good night. She tells me to wait, but there's a car behind me so I tell her to hop in. I ask her "what's up?" She responded, "Well I just wanted to keep in touch with you, here's my number"

I texted her the next morning telling her "It was nice to meet you, hope you made it home safe" and never got a response.

I never asked her for her number, so idk why she gave it to me and then not respond
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Glassguy

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The problem isnt why she gave you her number.

The problem is that you cant control your fingers and you had to text her the next morning? That shows a weak frame, that you have no other options and desperation.

If anything, at some point the next evening, a text of "Hey its Glassguy. This is my number" and leave the ball in her court.

The only time I text a girl that fast is if we are out drinking on a date and I ask her to text me to let me know she made it back ok. Thats it.

Learn some patience. It will go a long way.
 
El Payaso

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Who knows? Could have been a wrong number (deliberately or accidentally), she could have had a boyfriend and came to her senses, or she wasn't really interested. Could be anything.
 
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