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I'm going to the gym. Stop being pussies.:kick:
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She flaked boo-hoo
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
But she was my whole life... Even though we just met. Do you think there's something I did wrong? Should I call her, and apologize - then leave a hundred voicemails asking for another chance? What do you think of this idea? Too AFC BFF OMG?
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Fitting eh
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Update, after she flaked I sent a message that said k, and initiated no contact.
Tonight she is calling me. Just wanted to throw that out there.
Tonight she is calling me. Just wanted to throw that out there.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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nothing surprising...i get flakes all the time.
5string
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Should have sent her flowers, texted her 400 times, left voice mail messages and hid behind the bushes by her front door for a fleeting glimpse of the oneitis while at the same time spanking your weasel till it throws up.
Seriously though. Nice job!!!
Seriously though. Nice job!!!
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Update on this one, we have hung out a few times I have been reluctant to seal the deal, we have gone to 3rd base a few times.. I feel like her IL is starting to drop. Thinking I may just have to do it, not that it is a bad thing, I was just trying to get things to move a bit slower as I am not just looking for someone to ****, but this may end up turning into just that.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SamTheHobit
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Lol @ this thread! xD
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Hey, it happens to us all.
Just have fun without the girl.
It's best if you play a moonlight serenade in front of her window, then fill up her voicemail, and send her 93 text messages, all different. Do this in any order you please, it works great. Extra points for stalking her!
You're obviously a retard if you do the red.
Case closed.
Just have fun without the girl.
It's best if you play a moonlight serenade in front of her window, then fill up her voicemail, and send her 93 text messages, all different. Do this in any order you please, it works great. Extra points for stalking her!
You're obviously a retard if you do the red.
Case closed.
5string
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Not if you get to see her playing with her coochie through the window!st_99 said:is that bad?
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LOL5string said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.