HalfAddict
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I'm going to the gym. Stop being pussies.:kick:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She flaked boo-hoo
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
But she was my whole life... Even though we just met. Do you think there's something I did wrong? Should I call her, and apologize - then leave a hundred voicemails asking for another chance? What do you think of this idea? Too AFC BFF OMG?
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Fitting eh
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Update, after she flaked I sent a message that said k, and initiated no contact.
Tonight she is calling me. Just wanted to throw that out there.
Tonight she is calling me. Just wanted to throw that out there.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mustfirstregister
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nothing surprising...i get flakes all the time.
5string
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Should have sent her flowers, texted her 400 times, left voice mail messages and hid behind the bushes by her front door for a fleeting glimpse of the oneitis while at the same time spanking your weasel till it throws up.
Seriously though. Nice job!!!
Seriously though. Nice job!!!
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Update on this one, we have hung out a few times I have been reluctant to seal the deal, we have gone to 3rd base a few times.. I feel like her IL is starting to drop. Thinking I may just have to do it, not that it is a bad thing, I was just trying to get things to move a bit slower as I am not just looking for someone to ****, but this may end up turning into just that.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SamTheHobit
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Lol @ this thread! xD
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Hey, it happens to us all.
Just have fun without the girl.
It's best if you play a moonlight serenade in front of her window, then fill up her voicemail, and send her 93 text messages, all different. Do this in any order you please, it works great. Extra points for stalking her!
You're obviously a retard if you do the red.
Case closed.
Just have fun without the girl.
It's best if you play a moonlight serenade in front of her window, then fill up her voicemail, and send her 93 text messages, all different. Do this in any order you please, it works great. Extra points for stalking her!
You're obviously a retard if you do the red.
Case closed.
5string
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Not if you get to see her playing with her coochie through the window!st_99 said:is that bad?
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LOL5string said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.