The Duke
Master Don Juan
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I haven't read everything that has been shared so might be a bit off.I’m seeing a girl for 3 months. She is 35 and never had a serious relationship only fwb type of relationship. We meet twice a week at her place.
Tonight she told me she likes me and enjoys the sex but doesn’t have feelings for me. She doesn’t know yet what she wants but she thinks she probably doesn’t want a serious relationship in the future.
She said she is happy with what we have now exclusive sex and hangout at her place. But if she figures out someday she doesn’t want a serious relationship, then she doesn’t want to be keep this sex thing we have now forever.
I asked why she is telling me this? She said she feels I want more from this in the future and she doesn’t want to end it someday and then I blame her that she was just leading me on and didn’t want a relationship from the beginning.
Plan of action? I think I’ll keep meeting her and just text for meet ups?
Is she on her way out ?
A person that has only had FWB relationships and nothing serious likely has an attachment disorder. When things get too deep, they detach to feel safe. You might read up on the types and see if anything makes sense.
Every girl I've ever been with that used a ton of emojis in texting had a mental issue.