"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ProDJ26

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NEXT THAT B****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

haha I don't know but im no math scholar but lets look at he following equation class:

Attention H0re + Partying + "water" + living with a guy? + "hanging out" =

NEXT THAT B****!!!!!!!!!

dude she's obviously not interested why waste your time? Move on for the better. "for everyone that say no, two say yes"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rushing dude 123

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Reyaj said:
Any update on this?
Wow 3 years, you waited quite patiently for an update lol.

Don't think there will be one, his last activity was in 2008, i am sure he has moved on seeing he didn't need this site anymore.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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I honestly don't think this is anyone's fault. LDR's just don't work. It's completely unrealistic to think someone is just going to not have sex for many months at a time. It's not fair to you, it's not fair to the other person and it's completely unrealistic. People at that age should be fvcking regularly, not waiting 4 months in between getting laid.
 

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In case for whatever reason this thread doesn't go back to the death it might belong. LDR's dont work. Unless, they are not exclusive relationships. I dont just mean sex either. Just dating too. I did this with a girl and it was one of the most fun enjoyable "relationships' I ever had. We would compare notes about dates and sex, laugh, have deep conversation, and tell each other we loved each other. We enjoyed it so much after a while we decided we were all we wanted and we would try something deeper. And, almost instantly it imploded in a horrible and painful way.

This is what I learned: Even if the LDR has 2 of the most wonderful, mature, perfect individuals and the relationship is incredible perfect....It still sucks horribly. Cause the better it gets, the greater the distance feels. So the better it gets, the more it hurts. By that very design, you are hitting critical mass and terminal velocity every day. And it sucks. And, it blows up hard. Stupid.

In the end I lost a great friend, a decent human being, and possibly the best plate I could have ever wanted. Which is exactly were both of us should have left it plate status.
 
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