"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NEXT THAT B****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

haha I don't know but im no math scholar but lets look at he following equation class:

Attention H0re + Partying + "water" + living with a guy? + "hanging out" =

NEXT THAT B****!!!!!!!!!

dude she's obviously not interested why waste your time? Move on for the better. "for everyone that say no, two say yes"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Reyaj said:
Any update on this?
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Wow 3 years, you waited quite patiently for an update lol.

Don't think there will be one, his last activity was in 2008, i am sure he has moved on seeing he didn't need this site anymore.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I honestly don't think this is anyone's fault. LDR's just don't work. It's completely unrealistic to think someone is just going to not have sex for many months at a time. It's not fair to you, it's not fair to the other person and it's completely unrealistic. People at that age should be fvcking regularly, not waiting 4 months in between getting laid.
 
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In case for whatever reason this thread doesn't go back to the death it might belong. LDR's dont work. Unless, they are not exclusive relationships. I dont just mean sex either. Just dating too. I did this with a girl and it was one of the most fun enjoyable "relationships' I ever had. We would compare notes about dates and sex, laugh, have deep conversation, and tell each other we loved each other. We enjoyed it so much after a while we decided we were all we wanted and we would try something deeper. And, almost instantly it imploded in a horrible and painful way.

This is what I learned: Even if the LDR has 2 of the most wonderful, mature, perfect individuals and the relationship is incredible perfect....It still sucks horribly. Cause the better it gets, the greater the distance feels. So the better it gets, the more it hurts. By that very design, you are hitting critical mass and terminal velocity every day. And it sucks. And, it blows up hard. Stupid.

In the end I lost a great friend, a decent human being, and possibly the best plate I could have ever wanted. Which is exactly were both of us should have left it plate status.
 
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