"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ProDJ26

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NEXT THAT B****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

haha I don't know but im no math scholar but lets look at he following equation class:

Attention H0re + Partying + "water" + living with a guy? + "hanging out" =

NEXT THAT B****!!!!!!!!!

dude she's obviously not interested why waste your time? Move on for the better. "for everyone that say no, two say yes"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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rushing dude 123

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Reyaj said:
Any update on this?
Wow 3 years, you waited quite patiently for an update lol.

Don't think there will be one, his last activity was in 2008, i am sure he has moved on seeing he didn't need this site anymore.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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marmel75

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I honestly don't think this is anyone's fault. LDR's just don't work. It's completely unrealistic to think someone is just going to not have sex for many months at a time. It's not fair to you, it's not fair to the other person and it's completely unrealistic. People at that age should be fvcking regularly, not waiting 4 months in between getting laid.
 

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In case for whatever reason this thread doesn't go back to the death it might belong. LDR's dont work. Unless, they are not exclusive relationships. I dont just mean sex either. Just dating too. I did this with a girl and it was one of the most fun enjoyable "relationships' I ever had. We would compare notes about dates and sex, laugh, have deep conversation, and tell each other we loved each other. We enjoyed it so much after a while we decided we were all we wanted and we would try something deeper. And, almost instantly it imploded in a horrible and painful way.

This is what I learned: Even if the LDR has 2 of the most wonderful, mature, perfect individuals and the relationship is incredible perfect....It still sucks horribly. Cause the better it gets, the greater the distance feels. So the better it gets, the more it hurts. By that very design, you are hitting critical mass and terminal velocity every day. And it sucks. And, it blows up hard. Stupid.

In the end I lost a great friend, a decent human being, and possibly the best plate I could have ever wanted. Which is exactly were both of us should have left it plate status.
 
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