"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She came in store i had boner it was hard to hide what to do?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wifehunter

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play it off as normal!

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yewki

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To answer your question I think it depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking for some type of long term thing, I would say yes just fap before the date. You'll be able to focus better and probably have a better time. If you're mainly looking to bang, then show up with a boner and do your thing.

One way I found to conceal a boner is to maneuver it so that it's pointing straight up and held in place under the waist line of your pants. It's much harder to see this way and it's also pointing against gravity as an added bonus (blood flow). If it sticks up out of your pants, just don't lift your shirt up lol
 

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Doesn't the guy talk about that in the Rational Male...

The fallacy of the "Everything About Mary" scene....

Jerk off and you're going out loaded with oxycontin.......and you'll have that
thousand yard stare like that guy that got bullied in full metal jacket....

Keep the boner and wear it like a stallion.......Think this is me......
a sexual being.......like it or lump it
 
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