"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She came in store i had boner it was hard to hide what to do?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wifehunter

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play it off as normal!

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To answer your question I think it depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking for some type of long term thing, I would say yes just fap before the date. You'll be able to focus better and probably have a better time. If you're mainly looking to bang, then show up with a boner and do your thing.

One way I found to conceal a boner is to maneuver it so that it's pointing straight up and held in place under the waist line of your pants. It's much harder to see this way and it's also pointing against gravity as an added bonus (blood flow). If it sticks up out of your pants, just don't lift your shirt up lol
 

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Doesn't the guy talk about that in the Rational Male...

The fallacy of the "Everything About Mary" scene....

Jerk off and you're going out loaded with oxycontin.......and you'll have that
thousand yard stare like that guy that got bullied in full metal jacket....

Keep the boner and wear it like a stallion.......Think this is me......
a sexual being.......like it or lump it
 
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