"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She came in store i had boner it was hard to hide what to do?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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play it off as normal!

 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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To answer your question I think it depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking for some type of long term thing, I would say yes just fap before the date. You'll be able to focus better and probably have a better time. If you're mainly looking to bang, then show up with a boner and do your thing.

One way I found to conceal a boner is to maneuver it so that it's pointing straight up and held in place under the waist line of your pants. It's much harder to see this way and it's also pointing against gravity as an added bonus (blood flow). If it sticks up out of your pants, just don't lift your shirt up lol
 

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Doesn't the guy talk about that in the Rational Male...

The fallacy of the "Everything About Mary" scene....

Jerk off and you're going out loaded with oxycontin.......and you'll have that
thousand yard stare like that guy that got bullied in full metal jacket....

Keep the boner and wear it like a stallion.......Think this is me......
a sexual being.......like it or lump it
 
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