"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i call this girl, she didn't answer, then, calls back 4 minutes later.. except the convo went absolutely horrible. it lasted about 4 min then she said she had to go. F****ck, its my fault, i shoulda took control over the situation. but f*ck. buuut i havent tried comunicating with here in anyway since then, neither has she. my question is what do i do, its been about 5 days, should i keep waiting, or do you think i lost this one??

CANT LOOSE THIS FISH BOYZ, HELP ME OUT. ;)

thankss again. :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ARrocket

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Call her and INVITE HER TO GO DO SOMETHING!!!!

"Hey, let's go ice skating on Saturday" etc etc.

And, in the mean time, keep fishing.
 
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It depends. Usually in this case if I KNOW that the girl was feeling me I know she'll contact me if I don't make any contact. It may take her a few weeks, but I know she'll call. If it's kind of unsure I'd give another call between 5-10 days after, just for a last chance shot in the dark.
 
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I guess before I would take some silly, wild stab at a solution, I'd want to know how the conversation went so horrible. Details.

Remember, half assed explanations to problems will get you half assed answers.
 
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Well, you should be only talking for a short amount of time on the phone. You should spend time face to face in order to actually talk and get to get to know each other.

So, call her back in the future and set up a date. Something simple.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If an attractive girl called you on the phone and within 1-2 minutes she said "Can you come over on Saturday to go to the zoo with me" , how many of you sons of biatches is going to say Yes? (noting that she's asking a couple days head of time and you got nothing planned or you can reschedule your other event for this girl) , Come on, be honest. I know I'd say Sure!

You don't need to build rapport or form convo with someone who likes you. They either like you or they just see you as some "alternative" ( and who wants that? ) My policy has it always been with both men and women. I ask twice and then I ask no more. Now keep this in mind fellows...girls who ASK YOU out for the first time is never a good thing. Trust me on this cause if the past thousands of years men have been doing the asking, what makes you think modern women have changed much?
 
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