"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i call this girl, she didn't answer, then, calls back 4 minutes later.. except the convo went absolutely horrible. it lasted about 4 min then she said she had to go. F****ck, its my fault, i shoulda took control over the situation. but f*ck. buuut i havent tried comunicating with here in anyway since then, neither has she. my question is what do i do, its been about 5 days, should i keep waiting, or do you think i lost this one??

CANT LOOSE THIS FISH BOYZ, HELP ME OUT. ;)

thankss again. :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ARrocket

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Call her and INVITE HER TO GO DO SOMETHING!!!!

"Hey, let's go ice skating on Saturday" etc etc.

And, in the mean time, keep fishing.
 
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It depends. Usually in this case if I KNOW that the girl was feeling me I know she'll contact me if I don't make any contact. It may take her a few weeks, but I know she'll call. If it's kind of unsure I'd give another call between 5-10 days after, just for a last chance shot in the dark.
 
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I guess before I would take some silly, wild stab at a solution, I'd want to know how the conversation went so horrible. Details.

Remember, half assed explanations to problems will get you half assed answers.
 
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Well, you should be only talking for a short amount of time on the phone. You should spend time face to face in order to actually talk and get to get to know each other.

So, call her back in the future and set up a date. Something simple.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If an attractive girl called you on the phone and within 1-2 minutes she said "Can you come over on Saturday to go to the zoo with me" , how many of you sons of biatches is going to say Yes? (noting that she's asking a couple days head of time and you got nothing planned or you can reschedule your other event for this girl) , Come on, be honest. I know I'd say Sure!

You don't need to build rapport or form convo with someone who likes you. They either like you or they just see you as some "alternative" ( and who wants that? ) My policy has it always been with both men and women. I ask twice and then I ask no more. Now keep this in mind fellows...girls who ASK YOU out for the first time is never a good thing. Trust me on this cause if the past thousands of years men have been doing the asking, what makes you think modern women have changed much?
 
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