"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i call this girl, she didn't answer, then, calls back 4 minutes later.. except the convo went absolutely horrible. it lasted about 4 min then she said she had to go. F****ck, its my fault, i shoulda took control over the situation. but f*ck. buuut i havent tried comunicating with here in anyway since then, neither has she. my question is what do i do, its been about 5 days, should i keep waiting, or do you think i lost this one??

CANT LOOSE THIS FISH BOYZ, HELP ME OUT. ;)

thankss again. :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ARrocket

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Call her and INVITE HER TO GO DO SOMETHING!!!!

"Hey, let's go ice skating on Saturday" etc etc.

And, in the mean time, keep fishing.
 
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It depends. Usually in this case if I KNOW that the girl was feeling me I know she'll contact me if I don't make any contact. It may take her a few weeks, but I know she'll call. If it's kind of unsure I'd give another call between 5-10 days after, just for a last chance shot in the dark.
 
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I guess before I would take some silly, wild stab at a solution, I'd want to know how the conversation went so horrible. Details.

Remember, half assed explanations to problems will get you half assed answers.
 
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Mavrick

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Well, you should be only talking for a short amount of time on the phone. You should spend time face to face in order to actually talk and get to get to know each other.

So, call her back in the future and set up a date. Something simple.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If an attractive girl called you on the phone and within 1-2 minutes she said "Can you come over on Saturday to go to the zoo with me" , how many of you sons of biatches is going to say Yes? (noting that she's asking a couple days head of time and you got nothing planned or you can reschedule your other event for this girl) , Come on, be honest. I know I'd say Sure!

You don't need to build rapport or form convo with someone who likes you. They either like you or they just see you as some "alternative" ( and who wants that? ) My policy has it always been with both men and women. I ask twice and then I ask no more. Now keep this in mind fellows...girls who ASK YOU out for the first time is never a good thing. Trust me on this cause if the past thousands of years men have been doing the asking, what makes you think modern women have changed much?
 
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