i played it cool...missed her not doubt, i won't lie. But she text me today saying " im sorry i havn't been able to see you this week., can we get together tomorrow night?.... My reply was..."sure, no problem." BUT i wanted to say "where the he11 have you been?"....again, ive got a few issue's i need to work on no doubt.....i would like input but mostly im venting..thank you bother's either way.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
she blinked...after 5/6 days
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
You better drop the emotional **** or get out of the game or you WILL get hurt.teachme said:
Johnnyventana
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At least you have a feel for how you should respond and an awareness of how whacked the response you didn't use is. It is important that you keep that in check and don't ever let that inner-weakness-*****-thing out. It will only push her away. So be fun, be happy, make her smile and laugh. Don't be a ***** now that you got the date. She did contact you. That is something.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
You should have declined and said you were busy. Her IL woulda went higher. Now she thinks she can get you anytime.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Even though i probably would have done the same as you, in theory, this was the right thing to do;
PrettyBoyAJ said: