i played it cool...missed her not doubt, i won't lie. But she text me today saying " im sorry i havn't been able to see you this week., can we get together tomorrow night?.... My reply was..."sure, no problem." BUT i wanted to say "where the he11 have you been?"....again, ive got a few issue's i need to work on no doubt.....i would like input but mostly im venting..thank you bother's either way.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
she blinked...after 5/6 days
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
You better drop the emotional **** or get out of the game or you WILL get hurt.teachme said:
Johnnyventana
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At least you have a feel for how you should respond and an awareness of how whacked the response you didn't use is. It is important that you keep that in check and don't ever let that inner-weakness-*****-thing out. It will only push her away. So be fun, be happy, make her smile and laugh. Don't be a ***** now that you got the date. She did contact you. That is something.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
You should have declined and said you were busy. Her IL woulda went higher. Now she thinks she can get you anytime.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Even though i probably would have done the same as you, in theory, this was the right thing to do;
PrettyBoyAJ said: