i played it cool...missed her not doubt, i won't lie. But she text me today saying " im sorry i havn't been able to see you this week., can we get together tomorrow night?.... My reply was..."sure, no problem." BUT i wanted to say "where the he11 have you been?"....again, ive got a few issue's i need to work on no doubt.....i would like input but mostly im venting..thank you bother's either way.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
she blinked...after 5/6 days
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
You better drop the emotional **** or get out of the game or you WILL get hurt.teachme said:
Johnnyventana
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At least you have a feel for how you should respond and an awareness of how whacked the response you didn't use is. It is important that you keep that in check and don't ever let that inner-weakness-*****-thing out. It will only push her away. So be fun, be happy, make her smile and laugh. Don't be a ***** now that you got the date. She did contact you. That is something.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
You should have declined and said you were busy. Her IL woulda went higher. Now she thinks she can get you anytime.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Even though i probably would have done the same as you, in theory, this was the right thing to do;
PrettyBoyAJ said: