Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She asks about experience

DonJuan11

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Wondering what you guys would do if a girl asks about experience on a date and you have none. (experience = going all the way)

I've told a few girls this on dates and they don't believe me for 1 sec.

I mean, if you say "5", they get upset, if you say "0", they wonder why its 0 and what you have doing wrong for the longest time.

It's a lose-lose situation.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SickAgain

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Find a nice way to say, it's none of their business which it isn't. But it's usually a good sign that they might like you.
 

Bvbidd

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They won't get upset if you say a 5 they'll just get turned on.
 

Rata Blanca

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Just because someone asks you a question doesn't means you have to answer. You dont have to lie but you don't have to tell the truth either.

If a girl asks you for experience means she is considering/thinking about sleeping with you.

A few answers:
Stop thinking sexually about me.
Is sex all you can think about?
Is it true that when woman asks you for sexual experience, she wants to sleep with you?

Remember she is teasing you, tease her back.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being_the_Don

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DonJuan11 said:
Wondering what you guys would do if a girl asks about experience on a date and you have none. (experience = going all the way)

I've told a few girls this on dates and they don't believe me for 1 sec.

I mean, if you say "5", they get upset, if you say "0", they wonder why its 0 and what you have doing wrong for the longest time.

It's a lose-lose situation.
She's contemplating whether or not she'll sleep with you. To even bring it up means it's something she's definitely considering. Now, how you answer will tell her about your confidence level.

If you're both just in it for a ONS come off CNF. You could reply with "I only go all the way with women I'm really interested in." If she asks,"What kind of interest?" you could say "You'll know if it's you." then give her a sly grin.

Now if you're looking for an LTR then you would need to tell her that sex is not a meaningless act for you. In this case you'd say something like: "I'm saving myself for the right woman. Sex is a loving act between a man and a woman and I'll give all of myself to the woman I love because then it will be amazing." But that only works if you really care about the woman and know for a fact that she cares about you.
 

Leporello

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Say 3. three is a good number; you're not a man***** but you're not a dork either. I kept saying it until it was true.
 
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