"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She asks about experience

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DonJuan11

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Wondering what you guys would do if a girl asks about experience on a date and you have none. (experience = going all the way)

I've told a few girls this on dates and they don't believe me for 1 sec.

I mean, if you say "5", they get upset, if you say "0", they wonder why its 0 and what you have doing wrong for the longest time.

It's a lose-lose situation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Find a nice way to say, it's none of their business which it isn't. But it's usually a good sign that they might like you.
 
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They won't get upset if you say a 5 they'll just get turned on.
 
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Just because someone asks you a question doesn't means you have to answer. You dont have to lie but you don't have to tell the truth either.

If a girl asks you for experience means she is considering/thinking about sleeping with you.

A few answers:
Stop thinking sexually about me.
Is sex all you can think about?
Is it true that when woman asks you for sexual experience, she wants to sleep with you?

Remember she is teasing you, tease her back.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJuan11 said:
Wondering what you guys would do if a girl asks about experience on a date and you have none. (experience = going all the way)

I've told a few girls this on dates and they don't believe me for 1 sec.

I mean, if you say "5", they get upset, if you say "0", they wonder why its 0 and what you have doing wrong for the longest time.

It's a lose-lose situation.
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She's contemplating whether or not she'll sleep with you. To even bring it up means it's something she's definitely considering. Now, how you answer will tell her about your confidence level.

If you're both just in it for a ONS come off CNF. You could reply with "I only go all the way with women I'm really interested in." If she asks,"What kind of interest?" you could say "You'll know if it's you." then give her a sly grin.

Now if you're looking for an LTR then you would need to tell her that sex is not a meaningless act for you. In this case you'd say something like: "I'm saving myself for the right woman. Sex is a loving act between a man and a woman and I'll give all of myself to the woman I love because then it will be amazing." But that only works if you really care about the woman and know for a fact that she cares about you.
 
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Say 3. three is a good number; you're not a man***** but you're not a dork either. I kept saying it until it was true.
 
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