"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She asks about experience

DonJuan11

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Wondering what you guys would do if a girl asks about experience on a date and you have none. (experience = going all the way)

I've told a few girls this on dates and they don't believe me for 1 sec.

I mean, if you say "5", they get upset, if you say "0", they wonder why its 0 and what you have doing wrong for the longest time.

It's a lose-lose situation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SickAgain

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Find a nice way to say, it's none of their business which it isn't. But it's usually a good sign that they might like you.
 

Bvbidd

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They won't get upset if you say a 5 they'll just get turned on.
 

Rata Blanca

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Just because someone asks you a question doesn't means you have to answer. You dont have to lie but you don't have to tell the truth either.

If a girl asks you for experience means she is considering/thinking about sleeping with you.

A few answers:
Stop thinking sexually about me.
Is sex all you can think about?
Is it true that when woman asks you for sexual experience, she wants to sleep with you?

Remember she is teasing you, tease her back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being_the_Don

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DonJuan11 said:
Wondering what you guys would do if a girl asks about experience on a date and you have none. (experience = going all the way)

I've told a few girls this on dates and they don't believe me for 1 sec.

I mean, if you say "5", they get upset, if you say "0", they wonder why its 0 and what you have doing wrong for the longest time.

It's a lose-lose situation.
She's contemplating whether or not she'll sleep with you. To even bring it up means it's something she's definitely considering. Now, how you answer will tell her about your confidence level.

If you're both just in it for a ONS come off CNF. You could reply with "I only go all the way with women I'm really interested in." If she asks,"What kind of interest?" you could say "You'll know if it's you." then give her a sly grin.

Now if you're looking for an LTR then you would need to tell her that sex is not a meaningless act for you. In this case you'd say something like: "I'm saving myself for the right woman. Sex is a loving act between a man and a woman and I'll give all of myself to the woman I love because then it will be amazing." But that only works if you really care about the woman and know for a fact that she cares about you.
 

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Say 3. three is a good number; you're not a man***** but you're not a dork either. I kept saying it until it was true.
 
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