A girl I've been talking to recently has been giving me pretty low interest levels. I asked her to hang out last week and she gave me some BS excuse so I just said ok well let me know whenever is good for you. I've been ignoring her texts the past couple days and she just texted me saying she's free tomorrow night. It would probably be a good idea to say no cause she usually gives me some excuse when I ask her to hang out. But then again she's tough to get out so who knows when I'll get another chance like this. What do I do?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She asked me to hang out. What do I do?
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MusicMan450
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Simple. Hang out, but take control of the situation. Go where you want to go. She should be happy to hang out with you. Through being dominant and confident in her presence, you'll be able to gauge her interest, which, if you do it right, should go skyrocketing.
Remember, BE THE PRIZE, and don't slip into oneitis with this girl. If she shows low interest after tomorrow night, I'd next her, move on, and show her that her low interest really doesn't effect you, as it shouldn't.
*edit* And, like f283000 said, just have fun. I realize what I said sounds really serious, but as long as you're having fun, it'll happen by itself. Good luck, brah!
Remember, BE THE PRIZE, and don't slip into oneitis with this girl. If she shows low interest after tomorrow night, I'd next her, move on, and show her that her low interest really doesn't effect you, as it shouldn't.
*edit* And, like f283000 said, just have fun. I realize what I said sounds really serious, but as long as you're having fun, it'll happen by itself. Good luck, brah!
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Say no, this is obviously an AW. Show her you're not to be taken for granted and hold off a bit longer. Say "Can't tomorrow, but maybe some other time." and let her contact you again.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.