"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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SHB won't leave her house...

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I'm new here, obviously, but I've always been decent with women. I've been studying for the last year or so and have seen drastic results. :rockon:

There's a girl that, at times, makes me feel OQ, even though she's a 9.5. She's stalker-ish, but only with texts and email. If I call, she "has to run." If I dare her to call, she texts back an excuse. Yet she is ALMOST CONSTANTLY trying to get me to come to HER place.

It's become blatantly obvious that she's involved, but I've been with involved girls. I've never had one so adamantly deny BF exists, though.

She is not married... but maybe the ex-husband is in the picture? Why would she lie about it? Most girls understand that I don't give a **** about their "real-life" men.

I love women, but I'm a survivor first. Should I drop this SHB??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Turns out she was just THAT intimidated by me. Wow, these tactics are powerful. Or she could just be hiding an alternate life... who really knows?

Anyway, deal closed.
 
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Sure! Well, I can try.

After probably 2 months of texting/emailing/talking at work, I (apparently) had her completely petrified of me. This was kind of new territory for me--I've dealt with similar situations, but never from a bombshell like her.

When I got there last night, her house is HUGE, and I know what she does for a living, so I assume a man is paying for it. She didn't like me asking any questions. I chilled on the questions (not a problem for me anyway).

So after a bit of C&F + Kino, she was primed. No crazy beta male showed up or anything, so I'd call it a complete win. She DID have some work done that I wasn't aware of, but still she looked fantastic. That could have contributed to her nervousness, I guess.

And she said she never climaxes. It took a few hours, but I handled that. Twice.

I'd assume she's dating someone... possibly her ex-husband. Again, why she never admitted to it, I don't know.
 
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