"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SHB won't leave her house...

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I'm new here, obviously, but I've always been decent with women. I've been studying for the last year or so and have seen drastic results. :rockon:

There's a girl that, at times, makes me feel OQ, even though she's a 9.5. She's stalker-ish, but only with texts and email. If I call, she "has to run." If I dare her to call, she texts back an excuse. Yet she is ALMOST CONSTANTLY trying to get me to come to HER place.

It's become blatantly obvious that she's involved, but I've been with involved girls. I've never had one so adamantly deny BF exists, though.

She is not married... but maybe the ex-husband is in the picture? Why would she lie about it? Most girls understand that I don't give a **** about their "real-life" men.

I love women, but I'm a survivor first. Should I drop this SHB??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Turns out she was just THAT intimidated by me. Wow, these tactics are powerful. Or she could just be hiding an alternate life... who really knows?

Anyway, deal closed.
 
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Sure! Well, I can try.

After probably 2 months of texting/emailing/talking at work, I (apparently) had her completely petrified of me. This was kind of new territory for me--I've dealt with similar situations, but never from a bombshell like her.

When I got there last night, her house is HUGE, and I know what she does for a living, so I assume a man is paying for it. She didn't like me asking any questions. I chilled on the questions (not a problem for me anyway).

So after a bit of C&F + Kino, she was primed. No crazy beta male showed up or anything, so I'd call it a complete win. She DID have some work done that I wasn't aware of, but still she looked fantastic. That could have contributed to her nervousness, I guess.

And she said she never climaxes. It took a few hours, but I handled that. Twice.

I'd assume she's dating someone... possibly her ex-husband. Again, why she never admitted to it, I don't know.
 
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