"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shaving, what do you guys think of it ?

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hey guys,

god gave me this great gift, body hair, and i have in the front (chest and belly) a lot, i have on my arms and on the back, but i really have a lot in my pants, and i kinda not feeling really good about it.

i wanted to know if it's not so gay to shave all my body, with the laser thing (for all life), or maybe a dilution.
anyway i dont want to remove the body hair from the top of my body and let it grow on my pants (back and front), it's kida weird !

so what do you guys think ?
is that gay ? is that to female thing ?
i actually training (so my body start to form some great shapes) so it's not like i'm big and wanna shave.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This has been asked many many times. Do whatever you want with it. In my opinion if you think it's gay why shave it? Personally only thing that I think should be shaved is your chest n the private region.
 
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what about the back ?
it's not like monkey style ?

i dont think its gay but social influence do !
 
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TheMale said:
what about the back ?
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Um yes if you got back hair, SHAVE IT.
 
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ok thx !

another question, do you think it's healthy to shave ?

i have a friend telling me that the hair is to protect our body from external threat (bacterias)
and if you shave it you'll be more exposed to that bicterias.

is that true ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheMale said:
ok thx !

another question, do you think it's healthy to shave ?

i have a friend telling me that the hair is to protect our body from external threat (bacterias)
and if you shave it you'll be more exposed to that bicterias.

is that true ?
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No, dude. You have soap don't you?
 
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sure i have, but not sure it's relevant outside your home.
 
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Hair doesn't protect you from germs, your skin does. Be sure to protect your skin from the sun, though.


:)
 
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Skin is very important for your condition right now. If you want to remove your all hair from your body then you must care about your rough skin. After shaving all the hair from your whole skins the special parts or sphere of skintummy tuck Atlanta must be roughed. So, think about it and gotta a good decision.I think you need to go a hair and skin specialist for do that.
 
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I personally nair it...lasts a few weeks for me, but even after 6 or 7 weeks the hair isn't that bad...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheMale said:
hey guys,

god gave me this great gift, body hair, and i have in the front (chest and belly) a lot, i have on my arms and on the back, but i really have a lot in my pants, and i kinda not feeling really good about it.

i wanted to know if it's not so gay to shave all my body, with the laser thing (for all life), or maybe a dilution.
anyway i dont want to remove the body hair from the top of my body and let it grow on my pants (back and front), it's kida weird !

so what do you guys think ?
is that gay ? is that to female thing ?
i actually training (so my body start to form some great shapes) so it's not like i'm big and wanna shave.
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What does training have to do with it? Like your workout partners are gonna b1tch that your azzhole is too hairy and it chafes when they stick it in?

Read the story of Samson and Delilah:

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Judges+16&version=NIV
 
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Down Low said:
What does training have to do with it? Like your workout partners are gonna b1tch that your azzhole is too hairy and it chafes when they stick it in?

Read the story of Samson and Delilah:

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Judges+16&version=NIV
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yeah i know this story really well.
im jewish, and in jewish school we have to learn the bible, one of my favorite story in the bible.
thx for that reminder ;)

anyway, i dont see the connection here, it's not like i'm spiritual or a god's man.

what this story have to do with my question ??

I personally nair it...lasts a few weeks for me, but even after 6 or 7 weeks the hair isn't that bad...
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do you mean you waxed your hairs ? or you did the laser thing ?

and if you're doing the waxing thing, where are you actually doing it ?
 
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I keep my ****nballz trimmed up, never shave completely. I don't shave anywhere else except my face and neck. If I had back hair I'd probably have that waxed off or something. I've always heard that shaving makes it grow back thicker and fuller, don't know if that crap is true or not.
 
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it's crap.
a chick told me once, that its growing thicker and fuller because peuple dont actulally wax it, they trimmed p and so the hair isalready exist, in other hand when you wax it, your body need to produce anew hair so it takes time until it produce and it a new hair.

anyway i do keep my ****&ballz trimmed up (1mm) but not my body.
i need to find out the proper way.

and BTW waxing cost a lot more after a while than actually doing the laser thing is it ?
 
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i don't shave but i do trim with clippers about once a month. i think girls dig a guy that's groomed down there - it shows attention to detail!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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do you think that actually trimming your body can be good ?
or better wax it ?
 
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