"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Shaving, what do you guys think of it ?

TheMale

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hey guys,

god gave me this great gift, body hair, and i have in the front (chest and belly) a lot, i have on my arms and on the back, but i really have a lot in my pants, and i kinda not feeling really good about it.

i wanted to know if it's not so gay to shave all my body, with the laser thing (for all life), or maybe a dilution.
anyway i dont want to remove the body hair from the top of my body and let it grow on my pants (back and front), it's kida weird !

so what do you guys think ?
is that gay ? is that to female thing ?
i actually training (so my body start to form some great shapes) so it's not like i'm big and wanna shave.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This has been asked many many times. Do whatever you want with it. In my opinion if you think it's gay why shave it? Personally only thing that I think should be shaved is your chest n the private region.
 

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what about the back ?
it's not like monkey style ?

i dont think its gay but social influence do !
 

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TheMale said:
what about the back ?
Um yes if you got back hair, SHAVE IT.
 

TheMale

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ok thx !

another question, do you think it's healthy to shave ?

i have a friend telling me that the hair is to protect our body from external threat (bacterias)
and if you shave it you'll be more exposed to that bicterias.

is that true ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheMale said:
ok thx !

another question, do you think it's healthy to shave ?

i have a friend telling me that the hair is to protect our body from external threat (bacterias)
and if you shave it you'll be more exposed to that bicterias.

is that true ?
No, dude. You have soap don't you?
 

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sure i have, but not sure it's relevant outside your home.
 
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Hair doesn't protect you from germs, your skin does. Be sure to protect your skin from the sun, though.


:)
 

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Skin is very important for your condition right now. If you want to remove your all hair from your body then you must care about your rough skin. After shaving all the hair from your whole skins the special parts or sphere of skintummy tuck Atlanta must be roughed. So, think about it and gotta a good decision.I think you need to go a hair and skin specialist for do that.
 

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I personally nair it...lasts a few weeks for me, but even after 6 or 7 weeks the hair isn't that bad...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheMale said:
hey guys,

god gave me this great gift, body hair, and i have in the front (chest and belly) a lot, i have on my arms and on the back, but i really have a lot in my pants, and i kinda not feeling really good about it.

i wanted to know if it's not so gay to shave all my body, with the laser thing (for all life), or maybe a dilution.
anyway i dont want to remove the body hair from the top of my body and let it grow on my pants (back and front), it's kida weird !

so what do you guys think ?
is that gay ? is that to female thing ?
i actually training (so my body start to form some great shapes) so it's not like i'm big and wanna shave.
What does training have to do with it? Like your workout partners are gonna b1tch that your azzhole is too hairy and it chafes when they stick it in?

Read the story of Samson and Delilah:

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Judges+16&version=NIV
 

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Down Low said:
What does training have to do with it? Like your workout partners are gonna b1tch that your azzhole is too hairy and it chafes when they stick it in?

Read the story of Samson and Delilah:

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Judges+16&version=NIV

yeah i know this story really well.
im jewish, and in jewish school we have to learn the bible, one of my favorite story in the bible.
thx for that reminder ;)

anyway, i dont see the connection here, it's not like i'm spiritual or a god's man.

what this story have to do with my question ??

I personally nair it...lasts a few weeks for me, but even after 6 or 7 weeks the hair isn't that bad...
do you mean you waxed your hairs ? or you did the laser thing ?

and if you're doing the waxing thing, where are you actually doing it ?
 

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I keep my ****nballz trimmed up, never shave completely. I don't shave anywhere else except my face and neck. If I had back hair I'd probably have that waxed off or something. I've always heard that shaving makes it grow back thicker and fuller, don't know if that crap is true or not.
 

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it's crap.
a chick told me once, that its growing thicker and fuller because peuple dont actulally wax it, they trimmed p and so the hair isalready exist, in other hand when you wax it, your body need to produce anew hair so it takes time until it produce and it a new hair.

anyway i do keep my ****&ballz trimmed up (1mm) but not my body.
i need to find out the proper way.

and BTW waxing cost a lot more after a while than actually doing the laser thing is it ?
 

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i don't shave but i do trim with clippers about once a month. i think girls dig a guy that's groomed down there - it shows attention to detail!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do you think that actually trimming your body can be good ?
or better wax it ?
 
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