"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mazeman11

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Hearing positive stories can be more inspiring than hearing about failures.

Please share your success stories with the softer gender, how you got to where you got and what lessons you learned.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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eko

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Used to be a pretty huge AFC... it's pretty funny looking back on it. I know some people don't like to use labels like afc but that's what I was. Never kissed a girl till I was 18. Started coming here, took me a while to change myself, but I improved myself as a person, not by being fake. The change took a long time but now I'm more comfortable in myself. Started going to the gym, so far I gained 30 lbs, really made myself worth something. Better grades, more friends, nicer, outgoing, funny. I used to be negative and bitter, no wonder I never got anywhere.

Anyway, I know it's not about the numbers of girls you hook up with or whatever, but mine have stacked up pretty quickly since then haha. I have a lot more options but now it's about weeding them out and finding the right ones.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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I married penkitten.
 

penkitten

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Giovanni Casanova said:
I married penkitten.
vBulletin Message

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Giovanni Casanova again.
 

The Inside Man

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Last week I went to a concert, my friend fell and busts himself up before we even get inside. I cleaned him up and then he disappeared into the crowd...went into the concert by myself. I found a spot next to a cute girl, started chatting with her, and ended up grinding the night away for the next couple hours. Had to pick my friend up from the hospital later that night, and she flew back the next day but it was a fun night.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interceptor

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Uh...wait a minute...
I married Penkitten too!!!


Penny, what gives???!!!

you got some 'splainin' to do!!!:trouble:

That's it! I'm removing one Gold Star!
This time you pushed me too far, woman!





:crackup:
 

Bible_Belt

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Please share your success stories with the softer gender

My wife divorced me against my will. Now, three years later, she wants me back, but I am not that interested in her.
 

ChrizZ

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this site has helped me so far to:

- have a gameplan for getting the perfect body.

- have a gameplan for financial success.

- have a gameplan for handling social interactions, carrying myself the best way possible and how to deal with women.

- create a more effective work ethic and time management to improve in all of the above mentioned.

I'll post my real success story in detail here when I am where I want to be in life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zerocelcius

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I used to be a jealous, clingy, inverted, boring, selfish, low self esteem, porn addicted, childish; sex addict that fell head over heals for every girl that remotely showed interest in me.

Now I let go of all jealousies, value space and independence over clingy and neediness, am extraverted, interesting, still a little selfish, good (not great) self esteem, catch a little porn but not by my self anymore, still childish in a fun way, and even more of a sex addict!:eek:

Before the only people that knew I existed were family and coworkers. Now where ever I go I run into somebody who knows my name and talks to me.

To be honest I never had problems getting girls. I did have problems with my emotions and keeping the girls.
I also had problems with leaving them….

Now I can appreciate somebody and respect them enough to walk away. That includes myself!

Success is much like beauty, it is in the eye of the beholder, but I feel like I have succeeded in many ways.

In reality I can’t post all my successes but I think this generalization covers most of it. :yes:
 

saber

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I used to be a complete afc...several hb 8 & 9's in my social circle wanted me but I was way too afc to know what to do. Maybee made out with 1 or 2 girls a year. Basically a social retard with tons of bad personality traits.

Lol now I have a gf/fb (not really gonna tie myself down tho) and am working on adding some more if possible.:yes:

Without websites like this I would have had NO HOPE.

Now I am actually better than all my friends who used to amaze me...lol
 
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