"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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- Thread starter Mazeman11
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Anyway, I know it's not about the numbers of girls you hook up with or whatever, but mine have stacked up pretty quickly since then haha. I have a lot more options but now it's about weeding them out and finding the right ones.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
- Messages
- 5,550
- Reaction score
- 18
- Age
- 47
- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
penkitten
Master Don Juan
vBulletin MessageGiovanni Casanova said:
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Giovanni Casanova again.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
I married Penkitten too!!!
Penny, what gives???!!!
you got some 'splainin' to do!!!:trouble:
That's it! I'm removing one Gold Star!
This time you pushed me too far, woman!
:crackup:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
My wife divorced me against my will. Now, three years later, she wants me back, but I am not that interested in her.
- have a gameplan for getting the perfect body.
- have a gameplan for financial success.
- have a gameplan for handling social interactions, carrying myself the best way possible and how to deal with women.
- create a more effective work ethic and time management to improve in all of the above mentioned.
I'll post my real success story in detail here when I am where I want to be in life.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Now I let go of all jealousies, value space and independence over clingy and neediness, am extraverted, interesting, still a little selfish, good (not great) self esteem, catch a little porn but not by my self anymore, still childish in a fun way, and even more of a sex addict!
Before the only people that knew I existed were family and coworkers. Now where ever I go I run into somebody who knows my name and talks to me.
To be honest I never had problems getting girls. I did have problems with my emotions and keeping the girls.
I also had problems with leaving them….
Now I can appreciate somebody and respect them enough to walk away. That includes myself!
Success is much like beauty, it is in the eye of the beholder, but I feel like I have succeeded in many ways.
In reality I can’t post all my successes but I think this generalization covers most of it. :yes:
Lol now I have a gf/fb (not really gonna tie myself down tho) and am working on adding some more if possible.:yes:
Without websites like this I would have had NO HOPE.
Now I am actually better than all my friends who used to amaze me...lol