"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mazeman11

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Hearing positive stories can be more inspiring than hearing about failures.

Please share your success stories with the softer gender, how you got to where you got and what lessons you learned.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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eko

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Used to be a pretty huge AFC... it's pretty funny looking back on it. I know some people don't like to use labels like afc but that's what I was. Never kissed a girl till I was 18. Started coming here, took me a while to change myself, but I improved myself as a person, not by being fake. The change took a long time but now I'm more comfortable in myself. Started going to the gym, so far I gained 30 lbs, really made myself worth something. Better grades, more friends, nicer, outgoing, funny. I used to be negative and bitter, no wonder I never got anywhere.

Anyway, I know it's not about the numbers of girls you hook up with or whatever, but mine have stacked up pretty quickly since then haha. I have a lot more options but now it's about weeding them out and finding the right ones.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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I married penkitten.
 

penkitten

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Giovanni Casanova said:
I married penkitten.
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Giovanni Casanova again.
 

The Inside Man

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Last week I went to a concert, my friend fell and busts himself up before we even get inside. I cleaned him up and then he disappeared into the crowd...went into the concert by myself. I found a spot next to a cute girl, started chatting with her, and ended up grinding the night away for the next couple hours. Had to pick my friend up from the hospital later that night, and she flew back the next day but it was a fun night.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Interceptor

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Uh...wait a minute...
I married Penkitten too!!!


Penny, what gives???!!!

you got some 'splainin' to do!!!:trouble:

That's it! I'm removing one Gold Star!
This time you pushed me too far, woman!





:crackup:
 

Bible_Belt

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Please share your success stories with the softer gender

My wife divorced me against my will. Now, three years later, she wants me back, but I am not that interested in her.
 

ChrizZ

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this site has helped me so far to:

- have a gameplan for getting the perfect body.

- have a gameplan for financial success.

- have a gameplan for handling social interactions, carrying myself the best way possible and how to deal with women.

- create a more effective work ethic and time management to improve in all of the above mentioned.

I'll post my real success story in detail here when I am where I want to be in life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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zerocelcius

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I used to be a jealous, clingy, inverted, boring, selfish, low self esteem, porn addicted, childish; sex addict that fell head over heals for every girl that remotely showed interest in me.

Now I let go of all jealousies, value space and independence over clingy and neediness, am extraverted, interesting, still a little selfish, good (not great) self esteem, catch a little porn but not by my self anymore, still childish in a fun way, and even more of a sex addict!:eek:

Before the only people that knew I existed were family and coworkers. Now where ever I go I run into somebody who knows my name and talks to me.

To be honest I never had problems getting girls. I did have problems with my emotions and keeping the girls.
I also had problems with leaving them….

Now I can appreciate somebody and respect them enough to walk away. That includes myself!

Success is much like beauty, it is in the eye of the beholder, but I feel like I have succeeded in many ways.

In reality I can’t post all my successes but I think this generalization covers most of it. :yes:
 

saber

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I used to be a complete afc...several hb 8 & 9's in my social circle wanted me but I was way too afc to know what to do. Maybee made out with 1 or 2 girls a year. Basically a social retard with tons of bad personality traits.

Lol now I have a gf/fb (not really gonna tie myself down tho) and am working on adding some more if possible.:yes:

Without websites like this I would have had NO HOPE.

Now I am actually better than all my friends who used to amaze me...lol
 
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