Rainman4707
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 30, 2012
- Messages
- 1,725
- Reaction score
- 597
You're keen. Do you not get sick of it?I eat oatmeal and peanuts everyday.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You're keen. Do you not get sick of it?I eat oatmeal and peanuts everyday.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why are you assuming they aren't? Allergies and food sensitivities are completely different things. Allergies are much more serious and immediate reactions. Sensitivities are more subtle, build up over the long term and cause chronic inflammation/conditions...Based on your logic, those Asians must all be allergic to rice, the Mexicans must all be allergic to corn and so on.
More like if you eat junks everyday, your body will become inflamed as a consequence.
So just eat healthy food, and replace one for another when you get bored.
Instant oatmeal is garbage. Why don't you just get regular oatmeal and add some cinnamon to it?I'm 5'7, 160 lbs, 15-20% bf, with a BMI ~25 so I'm trying to get lean.
<2000 cal daily.
I only drink water.
I eat a packet of instant oatmeal every morning for breakfast except rare occasions which I will have bacon & eggs, egg sandwich (usually only sunday).
I like to eat Strong & Kind KIND bars and protein bars as snacks, REV wraps, and P3 protein packs. I eat all these pre-packaged foods so I can easily bring them with me to school.
I eat Chobani greek yogurt at home, and sometimes I throw in a package of trailmix.
I just started eating Quinoa in favor of other grains at dinnertime. My mom usually cooks mixed vegetables, rice and beans, steak and potatoes, chicken and quinoa, or noodles and shrimp.
dinner is unpredictable but I like to keep the calories down by eating only oatmeal for breakfast, and snacking on high-protein foods.
its so convenient. can you elaborate? what are the benefitsInstant oatmeal is garbage. Why don't you just get regular oatmeal and add some cinnamon to it?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm assuming you are talking flavored instant oatmeal packets? It's got a bunch of added sugar and other crap it shouldn'tits so convenient. can you elaborate? what are the benefits
Just get regular oats the "quick" kind. Just boil water and it is ready to go.its so convenient. can you elaborate? what are the benefits
It doesn't guarantee you will, it just makes it a lot more likely. The only way you'd know if you aren't having any symptoms would be through an ALCAT test which measures anti-bodies against different foods.I'm not convinced that eating the same foods repeatedly is in any way harmful to me. I've eaten the same small staple foods for nearly 10 years now, and I've never been diagnosed with any health issues, and it's never had any negative effects on my physical appearance or my desire to hit the gym.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
this iswhat i eat most of the week
any comments on bread if its no for abs ?
canned salmon/tuna/chicken ,with wheat bread as sandwich
oatmeal with hot sauce
apples/grapes few times two or three times a week
apple sauce for dessert
I am eating lot of wheat bread with olive oil peanut butter as sandwich
this is faster to make and ok
i am reading that any bread is not good for abs
working out abs for 6 months not much loss of fat