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[Giantsfan88]

Anybody ever date a girl for a few weeks, pursue her too much, been a little needy, then she backs away or "not ready for a relationship," only to have her come back in a month or two and you get back together and/or bang?

 

[hera]

Actually going through this with a guy right now.

He's been doing this to me every three months or so over the past year. I finally got sick of his flippant behavior, and advanced on him hard.

He told me I was hot, exactly his type, but started shaking when it came time for sex and said he couldn't do it.

Next.

 

[Giantsfan88]

You dumped him initially or he was being flakey?

 

[hera]

I've always shown interest. I believe he is still hung up over an ex, and has some moral issues regarding sex.

I'd rather a guy be up front vs. play games. I was literally on top of him when he broke down and said he couldn't go through with having sex. Mind boggling.

He commented: "what, are you not used to being turned down?".

I found that comment odd considering he never asked about my prior history.

Whatever happened to "hey I like you, but you're not what I'm looking for."

Nice and easy. Sigh.

 

[Giantsfan88]

sounds like a phaggot ahaha

 

[GS750]

So...you find a guy whose into you who shows mutual interest. There's plenty out there. If he's hung up on an ex, nothing you can do about it. It's the same thing as if a girl is hung up on her ex...nothing but brain damage. Hot/cold behavior is fvcking annoying. Avoid.

 

[logicallefty]

He commented: "what, are you not used to being turned down?".

So how did you respond to this?

 

[hera]

I responded with a quizzical look and nervous laughter: um, I don't put myself in this position with guys often, so no I'm not used to this.

I jumped off him, and then we cuddled the remainder of the evening and talked. Making out, heavy touching, etc. He claimed again and again that he wanted me, but just couldn't do it.

Something tells me he just wants to be able to say "I denied you".

I kinda wanted to break out in song/dance and split...
So long, farewell!
Auf Wiedersehen, goodnight!

 

[mrpickles666]

Hera, if a guy makes a definite date with you but you say you will confirm and he agrees, do you feel like he's letting you boss him around and is weak? And on the day of the date, if you back out last minute, and he said he didn't think you were coming and he already made plans because of your lack of confirmation, would you think the guy thinks he's unworthy of you?

Please give me a brutally honest answer.

 

[hera]

You created a separate thread on that topic, to which I already commented.

 

[mrpickles666]

do you think it would be awkward even if I ran into her again?

 

[logicallefty]

Something tells me he just wants to be able to say "I denied you".

You want to know what I think Miss? You don't? Great, so here is what I think:

I think you getting denied by a man blew your mind. I think it's still eating you alive to this day. Your hamster isn't spinning, it staggered off the wheel and went and got hit by a train. :yes:

 

[hera]

You want to know what I think Miss? You don't? Great, so here is what I think:

I think you getting denied by a man blew your mind. I think it's still eating you alive to this day. Your hamster isn't spinning, it staggered off the wheel and went and got hit by a train. :yes:

A year in the making and I was ready to forsake all others for him too.

 

[TheGambino]

yes until the part of coming back and nailing her, if you were too needy clingy whatever most hb8s hb9s so very good looking girls will have no interest level at all and already found a new guy. The average to ugly ones could come back because of lack of interested guys

 

[logicallefty]

A year in the making and I was ready to forsake all others for him too.

You are not denying that it's bothering you. Kudos.

Has a man ever turned you down for sex before, ever?

 

[hera]

You are not denying that it's bothering you. Kudos.

Has a man ever turned you down for sex before, ever?

No. But, a turn down while I'm mid-straddle? Come on.

Stings for me, but I'm sure his reasoning (whatever is may be) is sound.

I hope I don't develop a complex...

 

[logicallefty]

No. But, a turn down while I'm mid-straddle? Come on.

Stings for me, but I'm sure his reasoning (whatever is may be) is sound.

I hope I don't develop a complex...

I've turned down sex from my significant others, at times in their birthday suits and ready to romp, because:

- I knew I was not clean

- I knew she was not clean

- I was really b@lls azz tired from a long day at work

- I didn't want my kid to hear us

- I didn't have a jimmy suit

- The biggest one of all, she had been a flat out b|tch lately and was temporarily unattractive at the time

So you think guys should never turn it down huh?

 

[hera]

I've turned down sex from my significant others, at times in their birthday suits and ready to romp, because:

- I knew I was not clean

- I knew she was not clean

- I was really b@lls azz tired from a long day at work

- I didn't want my kid to hear us

- I didn't have a jimmy suit

- The biggest one of all, she had been a flat out b|tch lately and was temporarily unattractive at the time

So you think guys should never turn it down huh?

I'm sure his reasoning (whatever is may be) is sound.

Regarding the complex comment, I was being facetious, easily misinterpreted on a forum.

Thank you for the input.

 

[logicallefty]

I'm sure his reasoning (whatever is may be) is sound.

Regarding the complex comment, I was being facetious, easily misinterpreted on a forum.

Thank you for the input.

Yep

 

[hera]

Update: Sealed the deal two nights ago after four months. :rockon:

Chump.