"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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shake there hand.

johnny_depp

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I figured I should tell you all about a story that can possibly change you also. Well for about two years I had no job I didnt go to school, so I would just help my parents around the house and all. I had no luck wth girls. and my life just basically sucked. so for over a year I would go on this site and do everything, I would read untill my eyes turned red lol. But really nothing really helped untill a couple of months ago. I got a job and when there was people i didnt know that worked in the same place I would ask foir there name I would then say my name and then I would say nice to meet you. I would do this to guys and girls. The girls in my opinion thought I had balls, cause after that they would always try talking to me. Maybe im dumb for saying this but it sure did make me feel confident. Since I have been working I have probably shaken hands with over 50 people damn. By the way its a big company I work for. so deffinetly try this tip out it makes you feel good and you make more friends and im pretty sure girls will think you have confidence for doing this. so go out and do it. since i work with the public i plan to use this on them as well. for example if I end up talking with some girls i will ask for there name and shake there hand lol. if I like them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sux2bu

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*their

:cheer:
 

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only one person liked this tip? thanks man. but really to the others try this out.
 

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hands are good, but i think ill pass with the handshaking on women..

still good to see it worked for you!
 

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I always Introduce with a hand shake - But its the type of handshake you give her.

When you give a girl a hand shake - Shake her hand with your palm facing slightly upwards. so your hand looks like this .

Your palm ---> / < --- back of your hand

This handshake shows that you want to be more then friends .

Because the regular friend handshake is just Your palm --->|< --- back of your hand.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's a great way to give that "light touch" women crave. This is especially good if you add in a light elbow touch.
 

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Phat said:
I always Introduce with a hand shake - But its the type of handshake you give her.

When you give a girl a hand shake - Shake her hand with your palm facing slightly upwards. so your hand looks like this .

Your palm ---> / < --- back of your hand

This handshake shows that you want to be more then friends .

Because the regular friend handshake is just Your palm --->|< --- back of your hand.
thats good ill try that on the next girl.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I shake hands 9 times out of ten during a PU especially Street-PU and it works wonders.

Turning your palm upwards is submissive which tends to diffuse a certain feeling of aggression that your target could have during direct Street-PU approach.

On the other hand (not pun intended!) if you present your hand with the palm facing the ground, you will come over as dominant and aggressive. I tend to do that with friends.

Also, do not shake more than 3 pumps and don't crush her hand nor give her a limp handshake which would make a disastrous first impression.
 
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