"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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shake there hand.

johnny_depp

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I figured I should tell you all about a story that can possibly change you also. Well for about two years I had no job I didnt go to school, so I would just help my parents around the house and all. I had no luck wth girls. and my life just basically sucked. so for over a year I would go on this site and do everything, I would read untill my eyes turned red lol. But really nothing really helped untill a couple of months ago. I got a job and when there was people i didnt know that worked in the same place I would ask foir there name I would then say my name and then I would say nice to meet you. I would do this to guys and girls. The girls in my opinion thought I had balls, cause after that they would always try talking to me. Maybe im dumb for saying this but it sure did make me feel confident. Since I have been working I have probably shaken hands with over 50 people damn. By the way its a big company I work for. so deffinetly try this tip out it makes you feel good and you make more friends and im pretty sure girls will think you have confidence for doing this. so go out and do it. since i work with the public i plan to use this on them as well. for example if I end up talking with some girls i will ask for there name and shake there hand lol. if I like them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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*their

:cheer:
 

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only one person liked this tip? thanks man. but really to the others try this out.
 

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hands are good, but i think ill pass with the handshaking on women..

still good to see it worked for you!
 

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I always Introduce with a hand shake - But its the type of handshake you give her.

When you give a girl a hand shake - Shake her hand with your palm facing slightly upwards. so your hand looks like this .

Your palm ---> / < --- back of your hand

This handshake shows that you want to be more then friends .

Because the regular friend handshake is just Your palm --->|< --- back of your hand.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's a great way to give that "light touch" women crave. This is especially good if you add in a light elbow touch.
 

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Phat said:
I always Introduce with a hand shake - But its the type of handshake you give her.

When you give a girl a hand shake - Shake her hand with your palm facing slightly upwards. so your hand looks like this .

Your palm ---> / < --- back of your hand

This handshake shows that you want to be more then friends .

Because the regular friend handshake is just Your palm --->|< --- back of your hand.
thats good ill try that on the next girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I shake hands 9 times out of ten during a PU especially Street-PU and it works wonders.

Turning your palm upwards is submissive which tends to diffuse a certain feeling of aggression that your target could have during direct Street-PU approach.

On the other hand (not pun intended!) if you present your hand with the palm facing the ground, you will come over as dominant and aggressive. I tend to do that with friends.

Also, do not shake more than 3 pumps and don't crush her hand nor give her a limp handshake which would make a disastrous first impression.
 
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