"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shake there hand.

johnny_depp

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I figured I should tell you all about a story that can possibly change you also. Well for about two years I had no job I didnt go to school, so I would just help my parents around the house and all. I had no luck wth girls. and my life just basically sucked. so for over a year I would go on this site and do everything, I would read untill my eyes turned red lol. But really nothing really helped untill a couple of months ago. I got a job and when there was people i didnt know that worked in the same place I would ask foir there name I would then say my name and then I would say nice to meet you. I would do this to guys and girls. The girls in my opinion thought I had balls, cause after that they would always try talking to me. Maybe im dumb for saying this but it sure did make me feel confident. Since I have been working I have probably shaken hands with over 50 people damn. By the way its a big company I work for. so deffinetly try this tip out it makes you feel good and you make more friends and im pretty sure girls will think you have confidence for doing this. so go out and do it. since i work with the public i plan to use this on them as well. for example if I end up talking with some girls i will ask for there name and shake there hand lol. if I like them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sux2bu

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*their

:cheer:
 

johnny_depp

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only one person liked this tip? thanks man. but really to the others try this out.
 

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hands are good, but i think ill pass with the handshaking on women..

still good to see it worked for you!
 

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I always Introduce with a hand shake - But its the type of handshake you give her.

When you give a girl a hand shake - Shake her hand with your palm facing slightly upwards. so your hand looks like this .

Your palm ---> / < --- back of your hand

This handshake shows that you want to be more then friends .

Because the regular friend handshake is just Your palm --->|< --- back of your hand.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's a great way to give that "light touch" women crave. This is especially good if you add in a light elbow touch.
 

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Phat said:
I always Introduce with a hand shake - But its the type of handshake you give her.

When you give a girl a hand shake - Shake her hand with your palm facing slightly upwards. so your hand looks like this .

Your palm ---> / < --- back of your hand

This handshake shows that you want to be more then friends .

Because the regular friend handshake is just Your palm --->|< --- back of your hand.
thats good ill try that on the next girl.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I shake hands 9 times out of ten during a PU especially Street-PU and it works wonders.

Turning your palm upwards is submissive which tends to diffuse a certain feeling of aggression that your target could have during direct Street-PU approach.

On the other hand (not pun intended!) if you present your hand with the palm facing the ground, you will come over as dominant and aggressive. I tend to do that with friends.

Also, do not shake more than 3 pumps and don't crush her hand nor give her a limp handshake which would make a disastrous first impression.
 
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