shagnscoob
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that scheme except starting over with the weights at 95 right?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
shagnscoob said:Well Espi I think if you took the weights that you think you lift for squats and deads and tried to do them on the same day then yeah you would for sure be in trouble. But since I'm just started I don't have any concept of what my maxes ae, so I think it would be alright to do both with weights much lighter than my max but still work me really hard because of the 3 work sets involved. In all honesty the deads seem to work my back far more than my legs, and squats vice versa.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well also taking them off the same day would mean adding a whole day into my routine because neither would fit in Chest/Tris day... I'd like to note that this routine is the EXACT routine that is one of Iron Addict's top 5 favorite routines.Skilla_Staz said:Thats why you keep adding weight until it's tough. I would also recommend against Deads/Squats in the same routine. Go as heavy as you can on both.You're not doing yourself any good lollygagging with light weights just so you can "find your max". Get your form down, then pack on the pounds my friend.
Hm yeah, it's good to see you're putting more fat in your diet, because fats control hormones in your body, so a decent supply of fats = lots of good hormones = high sex drive = horny buggerI tried adding more fat into my diet by dropping 3-4 tablespoons of Olive Oil each day...
My sex drive is still nowhere. I haven't masturbated in weeks, I'm having sex less than once a week, and I don't even feel horny ever. It's outrageous. Can I get some bloodwork done to see whats goin on?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.