MagikDude
Don Juan
I would do a search on this, but I'm not even sure what to search, since this is pretty weird, it's not really date related, but kind of is too, either way, it's pretty weird, and I've never dealt with this kind of judgement before.......
At work the other day, I was starting to make friends with a client, to whom the subject got onto how new I was to the location and it turns out by coincidence me and his daughter just moved into the same apartments, now he showed me a picture, she's between an 8 or a 9 on a 10 scale, said it was not to hook us up necessarily, and said that he asked her if it was okay to give me her number, I agreed to take it, but I'm wondering if I should actually call, it might be fun, but on the other hand..........
This lady has never seen me before in her life as far as I know, and there's no telling she'll remember her dad mentioned me if I call up this Friday if I feel like going out and doing something new. But there is always that small risk that I could get into trouble, it's not like she told me the number directly. Nothing too important though, since I already have some other chicka's I've been talking to anyway, but I figured it'd be interesting to hear a DJ view on this.
The pointed questions being............
- Should I take a risk of her not remembering me being mentioned, and maybe expand my social circle some if all goes well. I'm not so much worried about rejection as the questions and legal reprecussions, becuase hey, people forget.
- Or, this is too shady and should be left alone, I don't want to come across as some loon, for all she knows I'm a greasy balding fat guy in his momma's basement.
I dunno, this is the first time I've dealt with "phone tag", ive done LDR's, I've done Internet Dating, and I've dealt with some weird set-up's in my full-blown-AFC days, but this is weird beyond recognition to me. Is it worth the challenge and potential learning experience, or are the costs of the risk too high?
At work the other day, I was starting to make friends with a client, to whom the subject got onto how new I was to the location and it turns out by coincidence me and his daughter just moved into the same apartments, now he showed me a picture, she's between an 8 or a 9 on a 10 scale, said it was not to hook us up necessarily, and said that he asked her if it was okay to give me her number, I agreed to take it, but I'm wondering if I should actually call, it might be fun, but on the other hand..........
This lady has never seen me before in her life as far as I know, and there's no telling she'll remember her dad mentioned me if I call up this Friday if I feel like going out and doing something new. But there is always that small risk that I could get into trouble, it's not like she told me the number directly. Nothing too important though, since I already have some other chicka's I've been talking to anyway, but I figured it'd be interesting to hear a DJ view on this.
The pointed questions being............
- Should I take a risk of her not remembering me being mentioned, and maybe expand my social circle some if all goes well. I'm not so much worried about rejection as the questions and legal reprecussions, becuase hey, people forget.
- Or, this is too shady and should be left alone, I don't want to come across as some loon, for all she knows I'm a greasy balding fat guy in his momma's basement.
I dunno, this is the first time I've dealt with "phone tag", ive done LDR's, I've done Internet Dating, and I've dealt with some weird set-up's in my full-blown-AFC days, but this is weird beyond recognition to me. Is it worth the challenge and potential learning experience, or are the costs of the risk too high?
