"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sh1t test or is she really jealous?

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This girl showed mixed signals.
Build rapport last time I saw her at the bus station and she seemed to open up to me.

She loves to sing, yesterday I was at a party and there was a band with a girl singing, she asked me to make a video of the band and send it to her, I did.

text convo:

me: and what do u think?
her: she sings very good
me: think you can do better haha?
her: oh your impressed of her ?
her: :)
me: yup shes good
her: oh why don't you ask her number then
me: haha shes not my type
her: sure she is
her: you both can sing great ( i sended her a voice over of me last week, i cant sing just for fun)
her: you both fit perfect
me: haha joker..

U guys think she's sh1t testing me or actually jealous?
btw: she doens't initiate much contact, im just gonna wait a couple of days and ask her out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What do u mean bro? Answering like no worries babe i got u! Lol i would never replie that
 

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LOL

TheGambino said:
This girl showed mixed signals.
Build rapport last time I saw her at the bus station and she seemed to open up to me.

She loves to sing, yesterday I was at a party and there was a band with a girl singing, she asked me to make a video of the band and send it to her, I did.

text convo:

me: and what do u think?
her: she sings very good
me: think you can do better haha?
her: oh your impressed of her ?
her: :)
me: yup shes good
her: oh why don't you ask her number then
me: haha shes not my type
her: sure she is
her: you both can sing great ( i sended her a voice over of me last week, i cant sing just for fun)
her: you both fit perfect
me: You know what, you convinced me

U guys think she's sh1t testing me or actually jealous?
btw: she doens't initiate much contact, im just gonna wait a couple of days and ask her out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheGambino said:
What do u mean bro? Answering like no worries babe i got u! Lol i would never replie that
No. A lot of guys take a women's sh1t test seriously and try to "explain" their way out with logic. You didnt fall into the trap.
 
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