"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

sh1t test or is she really jealous?

TheGambino

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,752
Reaction score
981
Location
Somewhere
This girl showed mixed signals.
Build rapport last time I saw her at the bus station and she seemed to open up to me.

She loves to sing, yesterday I was at a party and there was a band with a girl singing, she asked me to make a video of the band and send it to her, I did.

text convo:

me: and what do u think?
her: she sings very good
me: think you can do better haha?
her: oh your impressed of her ?
her: :)
me: yup shes good
her: oh why don't you ask her number then
me: haha shes not my type
her: sure she is
her: you both can sing great ( i sended her a voice over of me last week, i cant sing just for fun)
her: you both fit perfect
me: haha joker..

U guys think she's sh1t testing me or actually jealous?
btw: she doens't initiate much contact, im just gonna wait a couple of days and ask her out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

TheGambino

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,752
Reaction score
981
Location
Somewhere
What do u mean bro? Answering like no worries babe i got u! Lol i would never replie that
 
D

Darth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 20, 2005
Messages
1,626
Reaction score
98
Age
36
LOL

TheGambino said:
This girl showed mixed signals.
Build rapport last time I saw her at the bus station and she seemed to open up to me.

She loves to sing, yesterday I was at a party and there was a band with a girl singing, she asked me to make a video of the band and send it to her, I did.

text convo:

me: and what do u think?
her: she sings very good
me: think you can do better haha?
her: oh your impressed of her ?
her: :)
me: yup shes good
her: oh why don't you ask her number then
me: haha shes not my type
her: sure she is
her: you both can sing great ( i sended her a voice over of me last week, i cant sing just for fun)
her: you both fit perfect
me: You know what, you convinced me

U guys think she's sh1t testing me or actually jealous?
btw: she doens't initiate much contact, im just gonna wait a couple of days and ask her out.
Click to expand...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

T

TheException

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2013
Messages
1,109
Reaction score
111
TheGambino said:
What do u mean bro? Answering like no worries babe i got u! Lol i would never replie that
Click to expand...
No. A lot of guys take a women's sh1t test seriously and try to "explain" their way out with logic. You didnt fall into the trap.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top